Sweet Dreams (Are Made of This)

Sweet Dreams are Made of These - The Dressed Aesthetic

I think we all have a different recipe for what makes a dream sweet. Perhaps in your world, it’s Antonio Banderas fanning you with palm fronds while whispering sweet nothings, or swimming through towers of gold coins, Scrooge McDuck style (though that always looked rather painful to me…). But my sweetest dreams usually involve being out with my Mr. and my pup, happening upon the most perfect blooms, wearing the most perfect 1950’s border print dress…

This has definitely been a week of reflecting on what really makes me happy – both the big and the small things. I’ve had one of my very best friends visiting Perth with her new fiancé, and I forgot how amazing it is to have those people in my life who know every aspect of me. Who knew me in my geeky awkward phase (which I’m still in, but no longer apologize for). People who remember every ex-boyfriend, every subtle nuance of a situation, every memory because they lived it with you. People who simply understand your heart.

Sweet Dreams are Made of These - The Dressed Aesthetic

Sweet Dreams are Made of These - The Dressed Aesthetic
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I will be the gladdest thing
Under the Sun!
I will touch a hundred flowers
And not pick one.
Edna St. Vincent Millay

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My week was full of four days of laughing so hard my sides hurt. Of creating new inside jokes. Of remembering the parts of myself that were tucked in the past, but got to resurface. Of eating too much good food and sipping too much good scotch and reclaiming some of the joy that can get lost in the day-to-day, just-get-by mentality. There really is nothing like old friends.

Given the events of late and the uncertainty regarding the future, we also had many many discussions about happiness in general. Taking the time to reflect on what really fulfills us. Avoiding making choices out of fear of the unknown or obligation. Allowing our dreams to change. Recognizing that we never stop growing, never stop changing, and that even frustrating circumstances can be an opportunity if you look at them with the right eyes. I feel rejuvenated after their visit and ready to tackle whatever the world throws at me.

So, I’m marching out today in one of my new very favorite dresses from Geronimo Vintage and keeping things in perspective. Maybe I didn’t get a particular grant or we’re facing a tough situation without a clear answer, but that could very well open a door down the road we haven’t even imagined yet. You just have to let go of control now and then and have the courage to walk through it.

What are your sweet dreams made of?

 

xoxo

Outfit Details:
Dress: Geronimo Vintage (similar modern & vintage herehere, here & here)
Necklace: Gift (similar here & here)
Belt: Alannah Hill (similar herehere & here)
Bracelet: Swarovski (similar here & here)
Handbag: Rina Rich (similar herehere & here)
Shoes: Jimmy Choo, thrifted via eBay (similar herehere & here)

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3 comments on Sweet Dreams (Are Made of This)

  • Geeske

    I’m so happy for you that you have those kind of friends in your life! I have always had difficulty finding people like that in my life but I know that that would be my sweetest dream: to share in that heart-to-heart experience. I do have a wonderful husband and one very good friend, but still my heart feels so big that I want to share myself with many more people! Lately I feel that something is shifting though so I have good hopes for my future :). Venturing into the unknown can be very scary, but I know now that when I feel the most terrified it is usually because something really awesome is on the other side that I just can’t see yet… I’m sure something amazing will come up for you too!

    • kara@dressedapp.net (author)

      Thank you hon! I think you are on the right track – the first step is always about embracing yourself, your style, your individual voice (which you do beautifully). I can definitely see change on the horizon for you – because you’ve already taken that first step and are so open to having new people come into your life. For me, I never wanted a big circle of friends, but rather a small group of very very close ones. I have found that everywhere I’ve lived I’ve found one or two amazing close friends…and that circle grows and strengthens if you nurture it. Good things are coming your way, sweets – go outside of your comfort zone now and again and don’t be afraid to put yourself out there, and it will pay off in the end. 🙂 xxx

      • Geeske (AardeKracht)

        Thank you so much for your encouragement! Your words make me feel so hopeful. I never knew how important words were to me until I read your blog :). It’s like you defrosted a part of my heart that I thought was long gone. I hope to pass your gift of encouragement on to as many women and men as I can! My vision for the future becomes more and more solid every day. I really hope we can meet in person one day too. For now I wish you and your loved ones a happy weekend!

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